Why are the disputes in the Church so fierce?
Bill Lussenheide 2
During my years in the Church of God community, I have often thought “why are the disputes in the Church so fierce?” The answer – “because the stakes are so low.” Because there is so very nominal spiritual growth and little spectacular or miraculous things going on spiritually amongst us all, we then examine what little has been accomplished in our spiritual realm with a microscope, and dissect every particle with rigor.
It's not unusual for people to magnify trivial spiritual differences when the spiritual fruits themselves are and have been so trivial. In economics and in psychology it is known as "scarcity mentality". My impression is that this sort of mentality is present in the Churches of God and in most of mainstream Christianity as well.
Here are a couple of contrasts between an "Abundant Spiritual Mentality" and a "Scarcity Spiritual Mentality"...
Abundant Spiritual Mentality...
Abundance Mentality is characterized by generosity, and a
sense that no matter how much or little you have, there will always be
enough of God and his love , truth, spirit, forgiveness and
generosity to go around. The mind is not burdened with concerns about
Church survival, and all a person needs is carried within themselves
with the hope and comfort of God's spirit. and the church group
and community of which they are an integral part. Material possessions,
Church services, knowledge and resources are not hoarded, but accepted
and shared. There is a sense of connectedness and belonging that brings
a relaxed eternal personal security and spiritual health.
Scarcity Mentality
Scarcity Mentality is characterized by disconnectedness and a greedy
focus on the individual or his particular religious group. Material
possessions, "Spiritual Turf", Church membership and perceived unique
spiritual knowledge are gathered and jealously guarded to build
personal power, with efforts also made to prevent others from doing the
same. The mind is consumed with thoughts of day-to-day survival. Because
this paradigm cannot support a person in a sustainable way indefinitely,
a sense of helplessness emerges. This leads to a belief that ultimately
there is no hope for long term satisfaction of basic spiritual needs,
and so the individual's focus shifts away from survival needs and into
the realm of self gratification through the use of "Pride in
the Present". This can manifest itself in terms of spiritual ambition
and "title seeking", jealousy of other churches, putting down of other
individuals and churches, demanding that "we are the only ones that God
loves". Obviously this leads to mental and spiritual madness.
To me, it makes total sense to be a Christian with a "Spiritual Abundance Mentality" !